Happy New Year all you Greenbacks Magnets out there!
Hope the New Year is putting more money in your pocket than last year.
Let 2020, the year of perfect vision, be the year you see things more clearly and become more fiscally fit.
However, it was not long before news articles began to make me painfully aware of how income inequality affects our everyday lives.
Recently I read a frightening statistic.
The average American cannot afford to buy a home in 71% of the country. Average earners can’t buy property in 344 of 486 counties in America.
That just breaks my heart that so many people are locked out of the “American Dream.” I bought a home after the 2008-2009 financial crisis. There were homes popping up on discount all over the country. Now we are back up to gargantuan home prices again!
That means America is becoming a land of renters.
If necessary, you may have to do some geoarbitrage to afford to put a roof over your head without going broke paying rent.
What is geoarbitrage?
Geoarbitrage is an interesting concept, often closely related to the definition of lifestyle design.
Geography is location.
Arbitrage is different in that it is all about economics. In economics and finance, arbitrage is the practice of taking advantage of a price difference between two or more markets: striking a combination of matching deals that capitalize upon the imbalance, the profit being the difference between the market prices at which the unit is traded.
The two terms combined are a powerful combination.
They kind of remind me of Captain Planet.
For those of you who do not know or remember what that is, I will give you a short synopsis on Captain Planet: A cartoon about a group of kids that teach communities the importance of family (heart), recycling, and caring for the planet earth in all its splendor and recognizing its importance through its elements (earth, fire, wind, water). On the show when they combined their powers Captain Planet would be created and save the world from pollution.
Geoarbitrage combines the power of finances and location to optimize the two for extending the life of your money. It basically means relocating in order to take advantage of the lower costs of a city/country. There are different ways you can go about this.
However, the goal is to pay less than you can afford no matter where you decide to live. This way it ensures you are not spending more than you make.
Median home prices are $257,000 across the country. You would need to make $67,650 to afford to buy at that price point, but the median salary is around $57,000.
Renting isn’t much better. Come on San Francisco, $3,500 for rent is a mortgage payment!
Therefore, living in expensive places like Sydney, New York, Los Angeles, Singapore, London, Paris, Hong Kong, Osaka or Vancouver can break the housing budget big time.
We are about to go around the world today on the blog.
So watch out cause Greenbacks Magnet is going international! Let’s go!
First up, we are going to look at what it costs to be in the land Down Under: Australia.
You know the place. The place that gave us Crocodile Dundee and created one of the hands down most quoted scenes in movie history. “That’s not a knife. That’s a knife.”
According to realestate.com.au a one bedroom executive apartment is going for over $800,000!
It’s mighty expensive to live in the land known for koalas, kangaroos, the outback and its sandy beaches.
When I did a search for homes that were for a maximum price of $500,000 or less, the website turned up no results! I got this message. We couldn’t find anything that quite matches your search. Son of a beach!
Now let’s do like Pauly Shore in the movie Encino Man and keep on cruising. Next stop, New York.
Manhattan is the prime real estate in the Empire State.
According to Zillow, this home on Central Park West is going for $1,250,000. That is with a price reduction! The estimated mortgage payment is $7,461; annually that would cost $89,532 USD.
That’s after-tax dollars folks. The concrete jungle is just as pricey as the outback! Check out these prices in Manhattan. Can of coffee: $6.14 Average rent: $3,783 Price of a home: $1.36 million T-bone steak: $12.78 Trip to the beauty parlor: $68 Dozen eggs: $2.89 Notice home prices are over five times the median home price of $257,000! Wow!
Next stop, Hollywood. We are now in Los Angeles California. Known for its year-round warm weather and beaches, it’s the place where many movie stars call home.
According to Zillow, if you want the standard two bed, two bath home, then prepare to open up your checkbook. Couldn’t find too many homes with decent square footage that were less than about half a million. This home was over $600,000!
And that is small potatoes to many others I saw.
No wonder people are renting more and rents are skyrocketing. It’s a landlord’s market! There is no cap on rent so it just keeps on going up.
Rent is averaging 1% to 3% increases annually. That is keeping pace with inflation and the cost of living.
Buying a home may be what many people want to put down roots, but renting often is more affordable.
Renters are at war with their checkbook.
Trying to balance budgets on shoestring wages. Can’t afford to buy, can’t afford to rent. Catch-22 as housing a necessity!
Now we are crossing the Atlantic. Hold onto your wallets. I mean buckle up. Next stop, Singapore.
The crown goes to Singapore, as it is the most expensive city in the world. Properties were going for $50,000,000 on Sotheby’s! That’s right $50 million. So this place for $578,000 should be considered a bargain!
Even Realtor.com International knows that space is a premium in Singapore. Check out the first line in the description. Size is not everything but it certainly plays a crucial part in this new development from Sim Lian. Well said and well played to get these places sold. Size is indeed not everything.
Next stop, London!
Now that Prince Harry and Duchess Meghan Markle and stepping away from royal duties to become *ahem* financially independent, I wonder if their UK estate, Frogmore Cottage, can go on the market as it recently underwent a $4.1 million renovation. It would be a shame to spend all that money and just let the house languish and sit unoccupied. But what do I know. Those are matters of the Crown and HRH Queen of England.
Looking at homes in the London area of the UK, it seemed the ones with the most space started around $800,000 and went up into the millions!
Here is the home description: New to the market a stunning 4 bedroom semi detached family home. This property has been extended and modernised to a high specification. 29 ft main reception / leading to garden and 2 further reception rooms. Spacious modern kitchen and large utility. 4 double bedrooms all with en-suites and dressing room to master. South facing garden and of street parking for several cars.
Street parking for a home worth $1.27 million! Can I at least get a designated parking spot?!
Now we are going to take a trip to one of the fashion capitals of the world. Paris!
Yet again, I went with my standard 3 bedroom, 2 bathroom criteria and look what I found.
For this historic 199th century apartment, it will cost you USD $1,104,398 or EUR €995,000. Um, non, merci (no thank you).
Next stop, Hong Kong. If you are looking for a place in Hong Kong, China, it will cost you. A 300 sqft. home could cost you $900,000. Some people’s work cubicles or offices are bigger than this!
According to Christie’s international real estate, there are 556 Luxury Homes for Sale in Hong Kong. Place like park Rise, Bel Air on the Peak and Repulse Bay Road cost around $3,000,000.
Some of the pictures of the homes are magnificent, but out of range for average homebuyers.
Next up, Osaka. If you want to be where the action, expensive real estate, and big paychecks are in Japan, look no further than Osaka and Tokyo.
I found a beautiful apartment located in walking distance near a subway: Kitahama Station (1 min. walk) Osaka Municipal Subway Sakaisuji that cost ¥146,000,000 or $1,332,980 USD.
I’m starting to see a pattern here across the globe of home prices in major cities costing on average $1,000,000.
And last but certainly not least, Vancouver BC.
According to the Vancouver Courier, Vancouver was ranked the most expensive Canadian city in the annual Mercer Cost of Living survey. Vancouver has the highest cost of living in Canada for expats.
According to Remax, This newly listed home located at 502 1571 W 57Th Avenue Vancouver, BC, will set you back $848,000. It is a 1 bedroom, 1 bathroom and only has 748 sqft. Can’t even get a 1,000 sqft of living space without spending $1 million. Canada is super expensive.
Our neighbors to the north charges a premium to set up shop in this town.
I prefer to invest my money in stocks and let that money grow large enough to pay for my living expenses.
Build your wealth first, and then buy luxury. Get paid. Invest in stocks like the S&P 500 index or VTSAX. Rinse and repeat. Do this until you earn enough in dividends and interest to pay for your lifestyle.
Then you can quit the rat race sooner rather than later.
Earn the spotlight on your own merits. You’ll feel better. – Serena
I was reading a book when I decided to take a walk down memory lane and watch Gossip Girl on Netflix.
For those of you that may not know or remember the show, Gossip Girl was a show about privileged American socialite teens at an elite and exclusive academic prep school in Manhattan’s Upper East Side (UES); whose every move was texted out through an eblast via tips to an anonymous site called Gossip Girl.
What is Gossip Girl and what it does?
What’s the difference between gossip and scandal? So glad you asked, UES Forever. Anyone can commit a minor indiscretion and generate a day’s worth of buzz. But in order for gossip to birth a true scandal, it requires the right person to be in the wrong place. – Gossip Girl
Live in such a way that you would not be ashamed to sell your parrot to the town gossip. – Will Rogers (1879-1935)
The show was on the WB, then the CW, and aired from September 19, 2007 through December 17, 2012. The show was narrated by Kristen Bell (as Gossip Girl). Scandals, scoops, and hemlines run amuck. The show may have had a serious lack of ethics, but it did make for some interesting television.
Gossip Girl is based on a popular book series of the same name written by Cecily von Ziegesar. The adapted television series in 2007 came about from the book series she started in 2002.
Gossip Girl will always have a special place in my heart.
It was in 2007 that I heard this line from the show: You know, Dad, there’s this thing called MySpace where you can post all of this information online. Save some trees, have a blog. – Dan Humphrey
It peaked my interest in blogging. Then, I started this one, Greenbacks Magnet, 9 years later.
Some of the dialogue may be a bit harsh in its tone and delivery, but there was some truth behind some of their words.
Gossip Girl likes to keep things classy and somewhat true. – Serena van der Woodsen played by Blake Lively
Serena is so grateful because she likes to see the best in people. I like to see the truth. – Blair
So, let’s get right into it.
MEET THE MONEY PLAYERS
You got me thinking. If my class is so important to you maybe I ought to make it worth your while. So for the next seven weeks it’s fewer models and martinis, more flow charts and footnotes.– Colin Forrestor played by Sam Page
Last month, on Thanksgiving Day, I decided to watch some Thanksgiving themed movies and television episodes. And I settled on watching Gossip Girl.
The series follows Upper East Siders throughout their never ending drama filled lives that is often self-inflicted. It Girl Serena van der Woodsen is centered around it all and is the star of the show. Her friends and family make up the rest of the cast.
One of my favorite scenes is actually from the first episode of the series. It was a face-off that was incredible between two young women and it set the tone for the show.
The 4 top-billed (in my opinion) and main cast includes the following:
Blake Lively as Serena van der Woodsen AKA S
Leighton Meester as Blair Waldorf AKA B
Chace Crawford as Nate Archibald AKA Golden Boy
Ed Westwick as Chuck Bass Always
If you pay close attention to their conversations, they are dropping some serious money gems.
These little nuggets of life and money wisdom, when interpreted and applied correctly, could transform lives and bank balances.
Let’s begin.
WORK FOR WHAT YOU WANT
Never in my 16,982 hours of schooling have I ever been sentenced to detention. – Blair
Throughout the show, the main cast is always discussing their futures and going to college.
It was almost incessant in the amount of pretentious ponderings of how to be sartorially correct while interviewing for a top spot as a Yalie. And yes, that is a quite accurate assessment of the character known as Blair on the show.
Blair would look and act so innocent and demure like she couldn’t melt butter, but her stare and looks were as cold as ice. Very entertaining.
Here she goes on one of her tirades.
I am so a better fit for Yale than that Rory. – Blair
Now, she’s belittling and disparaging the character of one of my favorite shows Gilmore Girls.
But enough of the $50 words. Let’s talk about the rest of the show.
They attend the fictitious Constance Billard School for Girls and St. Jude School for Boys. In addition, throughout the show you may hear them casually drop names of other schools.
In the Gossip Girl (book series) — it contains the line “two little Sacred Heart girls in their cute red and white checked pinafores were walking an enormous black Rottweiler” on page 86 in the first novel of the series.
Many of the parents are part of high-society and are on boards of prestigious organizations, own businesses, and live in penthouses. They go to great parties, opening nights to the ballet, and fashion week.
You get the impression that these kids know to base their lives around money and making sure to earn piles of it is a must.
They are tireless paragons of poshness. The parties are lavish, the lifestyle is glamorous, and the fashion is couture and expensive. Makes for a great show.
What I noticed was that everyone in one way or another was working hard at trying to make their own way in the world apart from their rich and or famous families.
They chased their dreams relentlessly. Like a boss.
And made huge sacrifices to get what they wanted.
Great leaders only need three hours of sleep! – Blair
They worked, started or interned at major businesses, magazines, for fashion designers, newspapers, literary writers, politicians, and fashion houses.
You’re not likely to get or keep those gigs for long if you are playing around.
“When and if we end up together, it has to be as equals.” – Blair
Yes, indeed. Be independent.
BET ON SELF
Here’s my advice: Have a little faith, and if that doesn’t work, have a lot of mimosas.– Blair in the Wild Brunch Season 1 Episode 2
My family is really into waffles. – Jenny Humphrey sister of Dan Humphrey played by Taylor Momsen
If you want something, go get it. Have some faith in yourself. And good food and conversation go together. I have learned a lot about people when having lunch with them. It’s a great way to build relationships. My favorite meal is brunch. I too love waffles!
Their membership is so restricted, it makes Soho House look like a halfway house. – Blair
They say of you want to increase membership to something then increase the selection criteria.
The Ivy League have made this an art form. As you see on this show, even the wealthy were concerned about their college admissions. There was even some talk of donations to a school to get in. In the end, you see deep down, we all have our insecurities. Accept it, and move on.
I have learned that I am no better than anybody else, but I am always just as good.
KNOW YOUR WORTH
You deserve someone who would move mountains for you if he had to. – Blair to Serena
Normal people don’t get an endless number of chances, no matter the situation. That’s just you. – Dan to Serena
I have heard people say that well-behaved women seldom make history. At least that is what Eleanor Roosevelt said. I guess you can take her word for it as her husband FDR made history.
“I have an idea for you: quit. Your boss is a bi*ch. Let’s go to lunch.”
I have actually done just that very thing. I quit a bad job. Got a better job. And never looked back.
“I’m not a stop along the way, I’m a destination.” – Blair
That line could be someone’s Bumble Bee bio. I call it sophisticated confidence.
“He ended up treating me like something he owned instead of something he earned.” -Blair
You’re worth more than a guest lecture fee, everyone knows that. – Dan to Serena
A man who own a tuxedo shows that he has the means and can afford to provide for his family – Blair in Belles Du Jour Season 4 Episode 1
One of my favorite lines from the show comes from none other than Nate Archibald while talking to Chuck Bass.
Excuse me? Where’s my boy? “Seal the deal.” “Tap that a$$.” “Money marries bigger money.”
Wow. Money marries bigger money. That’s kind of cold, but ok.
I could care less about his Bassets and probably he’s filtering his assets through some foreign government so I won’t know. – Blair on Chuck Bass.
S: So you hired escorts? B, you couldn’t just tell your mom you don’t have friends at NYU?
B: Prostitutes are people, too, and they have a lot of disposable income. – Serena and Blair
Yes, people are focused on income, A LOT.
Take a cue from them and subscribe to The Wall Street Journal, pick up Fortune, TIME, instead of a gossip magazine and follow financial experts on Twitter. Become a devoted student of money, and you can master the science of getting rich.
Jane Austen also so eloquently puts how much emphasis people put on income in two of her novels. And also how to treat others with or without money.
FOR THE LOVE OF HEADBANDS
I know you disapprove of me, but can’t you at least do so in a tuxedo?– Lily van der Woodsen played by Kelly Rutherford
This show loves their tuxedos. And themed parties. Masquerade. Kiss on the Lips. You name it.
It is often said when you look good, you feel good. Well, I concur. You feel more confident as well.
I remember going to a job interview where some folks didn’t take it seriously. I wore a nice dress and some of the men wore suits while others wore jeans.
After I got hired and when I later started the job, I noticed on my first day that all the people that got hired were the ones that were well-dressed.
If you know one thing about GG, you know it’s all about the fashion.
The well-heeled wear nice heels. Blair was known for her love of headbands. People were always giving her grief about it.
Your era is over, and so is that headband. – Jenny
No headbands in college, okay? – Dan to Blair
Et tu, Dan?
SvdW was known for her fantastic sense of style.
And she had more loose interpretation of a school uniform than any person on the planet. The Tie Goddess. See for yourself.
EDUCATION IS PRICELESS AND THE PRICE OF INTELLECTUALISM
S:Wow, and I thought college would be different from high school.
B:Who would want that? – Serena and Blair
These kids were not just applying to any colleges, but the Ivy League. They wanted to be HYPsters (Harvard, Yale, Princeton) or the like. What Blair called the Holy Trinity of colleges. Which are all expensive colleges. We are talking $50,000 USD per year or more.
It was a constant stressor of theirs during the shows first four seasons. Case in point, here is a list of the schools they were trying to get into or that their parents attended.
For instance, Serena wanted to go to Brown and that college and Harvard are where her parents went. Blair wanted Yale and Nate was considering UCLA over Dartmouth like his father. There was also talk of Columbia, Georgetown, and NYU on the show.
It just goes to show you that getting an education is still mighty important.
Serena van der Woodsen or SvdW for short – Brown University, Columbia University
SvdW parents attended – Harvard University and Brown University
Fun show Fact: SvdW dropped out of Brown at the last minute because she wanted to find herself and she felt that moving away to another city wouldn’t help her achieve that. The classic one-year hiatus otherwise known as the infamous gap year before entering college.
This is what Blair had to say to her about going there.
Your deductive-reasoning skills are perfect for a place like Brown. An enclave of trustafarians and children of celebrities who major in drum circles and semiotics, whatever that is. I can’t wait for you to come home next Thanksgiving a militant veganista, anemic and proud. – Blair
It left me speechless.
Blair Waldorf – Yale University, Columbia University, New York University (NYU), NYU – Tisch School of the Arts
Nate Archibald – Columbia University, Dartmouth
Chuck Bass – Columbia University
Dan Humphrey AKA Lonely Boy played by Penn Badgley – NYU
Vanessa Abrams played by Jessica Szohr – NYU
Eric van der Woodsen played by Connor Paolo – Sarah Lawrence
Some character’s shots at the sheepskin, in my opinion, and other honorable college mentions include:
I’m telling you, I learned everything I know about women from Judy Blume’s Forever. – Dan
According to List Challenges, “Gossip Girl” (2007 – 2012) : here is a listing of some of the favorite authors and books of the characters or simply the ones mentioned by them and showed along these 6 seasons, books studied in university, etc.
Many characters also name dropped or were caught reading well-known books by famous authors.
I love the Snowflake Ball. It reminds me of Anna Karenina, only by Anna Wintour. – Serena
Maybe if we become famous writers one day, they’ll publish [our letters] after we die, like Sartre and de Beauvoir. – Vanessa
They also liked to travel extensively. Especially, in Europe such as Paris, France. In addition, they speak more than one language such as French while in Paris.
Elliott’s the perfect mix of smart and fun: He speaks three languages, but he has a subscription to People magazine. – Eric
List of titles includes:
House of Mirth by Edith Wharton – read by Juliet Sharp played by Katie Cassidy
The Lorax by Dr. Suess – Mentioned by Dan
Colette by Gigi – Blair read this on a bench in Paris
Jane Austen books – Pride and Prejudice, Emma, Mansfield Park, Northanger Abbey, Persuasion
Charles Dickens novels – A Tale of Two Cities, A Christmas Carol, Oliver Twist, Les Grandes Espérances
C. S. Lewis books – The Chronicles of Narnia, Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland
William Shakespeare – Othello, Romeo and Juliet, MacBeth, Henry V, Hamlet, King Lear
A few other famous works, Rabbit Redux by John Updike, Cyrano De Bergerac by Edmond Rostand, Les Liaisons Dangereuses, The Crucible (Arthur Miller), Wuthering Heights (Emily Bronte), I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Dr. Maya Angelou, The Art of War, The Crucible (Arthur Miller), Madame Bovary, The Old Man and the Sea (Ernest Hemingway), The Beautiful and Damned (F. Scott Fitzgerald), Cinderella (Charles Perrault),The Canterbury Tales by Geoffrey Chaucer, Faust, In Cold Blood by Truman Capote, Anna Karenina by Tolstoy, Walden, The Great Gatsby (F. Scott Fitzgerald), and Beloved by Toni Morrison.
There, I have just given you a reading list that every good high school student or Ivy League hopeful should have. Some of which I have read. My favorite author is Jane Austen. A close second is Louisa May Alcott, as I just love Little Women and the 1994 film starring Winona Ryder. But Austen’s Sense and Sensibility (1995) just amazes me every time. That along with Pride and Prejudice (2005) and Emma (1996).
The rich seem to be highly educated. They also tend to get ahead in life. Therefore, be well-read.
However, these trust fund babies did end up leaving college and higher education after a while to set out for their own fortunes in the real world.
For people like us a college degree is just an accessory. – Chuck
So, this too let’s you know that it is not always about what you know, but who you know.
You never know who you may run into at expensive coffee shops, libraries, restaurants, college, and hotels like the Palace in New York.
So, go build up those relationships.
MONEY AND RELATIONSHIPS
Just to clarify, I do think you deserve to be with someone who makes you happy. – Dan
True words indeed.
I read, like, five self-help blogs on how to turn friends into lovers. Yes, they used that word. – Dan
Come on, Cece’s heart pumps secrets and gin. – Dan
And there was lots of secrets on this show. Relationships and secrets were everywhere.
Sex is meaningful, like art. And you don’t rush art.– Dan
All great things are built or done slowly.
If you watched this show, then you may remember the season 3 episode with Lady Gaga. Here is her take on relationships that is so Blair Waldorf.
“Some women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you’re wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn’t love you anymore.” ― Lady Gaga
Marriage
Settling down means death. Less sex, more silence. – Blair on marriage
Blair also had some of the best lines on the show. EVERY. SINGLE. EPISODE.
Case in point, check this out.
And she actually said this too.
That’s the thing. You need to be cold to be queen. Anne Boleyn thought only with her heart, and she got her head chopped off. So her daughter Elizabeth made a vow never to marry a man. She married a country. Forget boys. Keep your eye on the prize, Jenny Humphrey. You can’t make people love you, but you can make them fear you. For what it’s worth, you’re my queen. I choose you. – Blair
As, I am a history buff and studied up on Queen Elizabeth I of England, my mouth fell open when she said this.
Check it out here.
And I am not the only one who feels she should get some praise for her talented banter.
C: It’s a facility for the disturbed or addicted.
B: You must have your own wing.
C: You don’t get enough credit for your wit.
– Chuck and Blair
If you go back with an uncertain heart, there will be drama and disaster for all. – Blair
You better believe it. In life and relationships, to be successful, you have to commit.
LOVE
B:Love me?
C:Always.
– Blair and Chuck
They were the best characters on the show, in my humble opinion. The two of them together was gold. Take a look for yourself.
But ultimately, I have learned that love is what we are all looking for.
MONEY DOESN’T BUY HAPPINESS
Trouble is moving in, and it’s looking to make the Upper East Side it’s bi*ch.– Gossip Girl
You would think that folks in tuxedos and ball gowns are the happiest, but these people seemed so unhappy.
Happiness can’t be measured in things. It comes from having the things that really matter like people who love you for who you are.
Doing the right thing takes courage and strength. At least that’s what I’ve heard. – Blair
Well, I hope you had fun going down memory lane with me and I will bid you adieu in the best possible way to end this post.
He did this by investing in what he knew. That is how he built his fortune.
You can do the same to build yours.
I listen to what people have to say, but I always make my own decisions.
I research any industry I want to know and then focus on investing in what I know. I try to put my money where my values are.
I prefer consumer staples such as food, beverage, toothpaste, cleaning supplies, tissue, and other household items.
Companies like Proctor & Gamble, Colgate-Palmolive, Kimberly-Clark. Clorox, and PepsiCo.
You can find many of these companies included in many mutual funds such as any 500 index fund like the Standard & Poor’s 500 Index (S&P 500 index), the Vanguard 500 Index Fund Investor Shares (VFINX), the Fidelity Spartan 500 Index Investor Shares (FUSEX), the Schwab S&P 500 Index Fund (SWPPX) or the T. Rowe Price Equity Index 500 Fund (PREIX).
I figured a good way to start my wealth journey was to learn about those that became wealthy.
Benjamin Franklin also created a list of 13 virtues to develop his character. This lets me know that your character is your destiny.
Here I provide you with his checklist. See which ones you can try to emulate to help you on your road to wealth accumulation.
THE 13 VIRTUES OF BENJAMIN FRANKLIN
In 1758, Benjamin Franklin published his essay The Way to Wealth.
Although, it was written 260 years ago, the advice still is holds up, even to this day.
Below is a copy of his checklist.
SPOTLIGHT ON FRUGALITY
My personal favorite is frugality because it includes all the other virtues.
Frugality is basically the will to spend money on what is important and avoiding spending on what is not.
Frugal is not being merely cheap or miserly like Ebenezer Scrooge. See my post on Money Lessons I Learned from Scrooge McDuck. It is about saving money on things you do not really need.
Saving money allows you to put that money to work for you.
Imagine every dollar is a little soldier. What do soldiers do? They fight.
You have to fight for your money because everyone is trying to part it from you. Don’t let them.
Invest that money and each dollar (soldier) fights for you everyday 365/24/7. Even while you sleep.
FOCUS ON FRUGALITY
In this world, you’re on your own. Benjamin Franklin knew that. So, he set out to start a business in a field he knew. He was a printing apprentice and started a printing shop. He became an expert at that one thing and did it so well that people paid him for it.
He then reinvested the profits back into his business.
That is how he grew rich.
He knew to become wealthy, he had to ignore the charlatans or hype. He had to focus on himself and his spending habits.
And that is what you must do. Ignore the hype. Forget what everyone else says or thinks. Trust your gut.
FORGET THE FANCY SET OF WHEELS
You do not need a fancy car to make you happy. Ride a bike and get some exercise. Better yet, buy an inexpensive, older Chevy where the bumper looks like it will fall off any second.
Then people will be less likely to ask you for money, if they see you riding around in a clunker because they will think your broke, but it couldn’t be further from the truth.
It’s not that you do not like nice cars or can’t necessarily afford one. It’s that you choose not to spend your money on it. Sounds pretty good right?
And watch out for the hangers on. They tend to come around when your last name is followed by an M.D. or Esquire.
FORGET THE BIG HOUSE
You do not need a mansion to live in. You know what that does? It just causes you to spend more money to heat, cool, maintain, and furnish it.
You fill the home up with stuff. No one likes an empty corner. Every inch is piled high with stuff.
How is that stuff paid for? Usually with credit.
What happens if you need that money? For instance, homes need maintenance.
Do you know what the repair bill is for a roof on a mansion? Well, you don’t want to know. One thing we do know for sure is that it costs more than what you would spend on a smaller house.
What about PMI? Private mortgage insurance is what you must pay if you put down less than a 20% down payment. And folks, that money is on top of the insurance and a monthly mortgage payment. We aren’t talking chicken feed here. It can be hundreds of dollars per month!
What about property taxes? It can add hundreds or thousands to a monthly mortgage payment. That’s money that’s not working for you in the bank.
You want to be investment rich, not house poor.
Every dollar that goes toward the house, can’t be working for you in an investment account.
I know they say the value of the home will go up and your equity will increase as you are making the house payments. However, let’s not forget the 2008 housing bubble.
When that bubble burst, so did most folks equity. Foreclosure notices were going out in the mail all over the country. Many lost homes. And many have still not recovered.
FORGET THE DESIGNER CLOTHES
You know those people who say dress to impress. Well, that’s fine and dandy, if you can afford it. However, if you can’t swing it, then walk by the $400 clothing rack and head to the sales rack in the back. Forget sartorial superiority. Who wants to be the best-dressed poor person?
I now see more people walking around with designer purses today than I have seen at any other time I can remember. Who’s paying for it? Mr. credit card, that’s who.
I see people opening up store cards all the time.
They have so many different color credit cards in their wallet it looks like a skittles bag exploded.
Places are handing out applications for credit cards every, single day.
You must resist. Resist the urge to spend. Credit is seductive. The temptation is too great.
So you must decide, what is more important. Buying a designer’s clothing and paying for their summer home or funding your own future.
FORGET THE EXPENSIVE WATCHES AND JEWELRY
I read about an NBA player who had bought dozens of watches. And not just any watches, but Rolexes!
Just because. Well, hey, you know bosses got to be on time.
Do you know what those things retail for? Well, last time I checked, it could be anywhere from $2500 to $40,000 and up.
The guy could have started a college fund. He could have funded an entire small city of kids $1k college scholarships.
Who needs 30 watches? Someone who wants to know the exact moment they went bankrupt I guess.
FORGET THE EXOTIC VACATIONS
So you want to travel. That’s great. But unless you can afford it or do it on someone else’s dime (like for work).
You may just have to watch the latest episodes of House Hunter or any show on the travel channel.
I once read it is a great thing to go travel and see the world as it is a great education, it will only cost you: $25,000.
I think I’ll just read a good book on world travels instead and invest that money until it earns enough interest that I can pay for the trip with cash.
Here are some of my suggestions on traveling when your travel budget is on life support.
You want to see the northern lights in Iceland? See it on a YouTube video.
You want to go skiing in Switzerland, Aspen, France or Vail? Watch a travel show until you can afford it.
You want shopping sprees in Milan, Paris, Rome, New York’s Fifth Ave, or Rodeo Drive? Focus on buying things that will appreciate in value. Clothes, once purchased, is money that’s burnt.
I know you watch the television shows and see all the families going to Disneyland or Hawaii. However, what they don’t tell you is how much it costs to go to these places. Lots of times the studio or the network is picking up the tab.
They do it for ratings. Because who wants to watch a show about people sitting on couches all day. They want to see the lifestyles of the rich not the broke and unknown. I say just stop watching those shows.
Focus your attention on earning and working. If your head is down working, you never can look up and notice what everyone else around you are doing.
FORGET FOMO (fear of missing out). It’s a myth.
I know plenty of people that go out, spend money, buy nice cars, big homes, fly to the islands, and go to lots of parties.
However, they are not the boss. They work a 9-to-5 just like everybody else. One missed check could cause havoc on their already precarious finances.
Many people are one paycheck away from being on the sidewalk.
Don’t be like them.
Practice the 13 virtues. Be frugal. Then you can live like no one else because you will actually be rich instead of acting like you are.
FORGET PRETENDING TO HAVE MONEY
Forget pretending to be rich. The only time bluffing works when it comes to money is at the poker table.
And you know what happens when the hand is over, the bluffing stops there.
So leave the bluffing at the table and check it at the door.
Remember that scene in the comedy movie Back to School with Rodney Dangerfield. He was a wealthy guy named Thornton Melon, but always said to his son: A man without an education is nothing.
There was one scene in the film where he was talking in class about being in business and all the things a businessman is doing to make it in the real-world.
The teacher disagrees with his assessment, even though he was coming from a place of information.
When the professor asks where to build the business after scolding Melon he replies, “How about fantasyland.”
When it comes to your money you cannot afford to live in a fantasy. You have to keep your feet planted firmly on the ground and your actions based in reality.
Earn money, save it, invest it, and get rich slow.