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Oprah’s 5 lessons for a great life

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Passion is energy. Feel the power that comes from focusing on what excites you. – Oprah Winfrey

I fully agree with that statement. I learned from Richard Branson, the founder of Virgin, to do what excites me. So, every post I write is a topic that I am excited about.

I write what’s brewing around in my head, what is burning in my soul, and straight from my heart.

Sometimes, I think of that scene in Spider-man Homecoming when Tony Stark (Iron Man played by Robert Downey Jr. aka RDJ) meets Peter Parker (played by Tom Holland).

You can check out that scene here.

He says this to him:

Tony Stark: Why are you doing this, huh? What’s your MO? I’ve got to know, what gets you out of that twin bed every morning?

I ask myself that question. What  gets me out of bed every morning and gets me going? If it doesn’t excite me, then I’m not going to do it. And that is exactly how I feel about writing for this blog.

This blog will be very lively and spirited. That’s me. Full of energy.

GET EXCITED

I don’t plan to bore you. I want to be the place you go to wake up to. Like a radio station. I want people to come here to learn new things, get inspired, and when they leave to feel good.

I also try to only do what excites me in my personal life as well. There’s no fear of missing out for me. If it’s meant to be, it’ll happen. If not, move one. There’s always another rainbow, opportunity, or chance for adventure somewhere. I say, onward and upwards.

Obviously, Oprah needs no introduction. You know the face and you know the name.

She has won multiple Daytime Emmy’s, been nominated for an Oscar, and is regularly asked to attend and speak at major events all over the world.

Well, Oprah once did the commencement address at Wellesley in 1997. In her address, she discusses 5 important lessons she has learned for a better life.

Here are  the 5 quotes from Ms. Oprah Winfrey that have inspired me and I hope they do the same for you.

OPRAH ON LIFE

My mission in life is not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style. –  Maya Angelou 

  1. Life is a journey. Every day experiences will teach you who you really are.

I remember reading a book and a man commented that he witnessed someone being mistreated. When he asked the man why he didn’t say mean things back to those who were saying awful things to him, he responded, “You cannot fight hate with anger. You can only show people who you are by how you live your life.”

Indeed.

See my post on how to thrive by working harder than others that I learned from Jay Leno

Money Lessons I learned from Jay Leno

OPRAH ON PEOPLE

When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. – Maya Angelou

2. When people show you who they are, believe them the first time. This is especially helpful with men. Don’t force them to beat you over the head with the message.

I have definitely learned this lesson.

In this life, if you want to not only survive and thrive, then you must learn to weed out the good from the bad apples quick!

Check out my post on what can happen to people that learn to value things more than people.

Money and Relationships…3, 2, 1

OPRAH ON WISDOM

A loving heart is the truest wisdom. – Charles Dickens

3. Turn your wounds into wisdom. Everyone makes mistakes. They are just God’s way of telling you you’re moving in the wrong direction.

If you ever saw that movie Sky High, his mom told him the following:

OPRAH ON BEING GRATEFUL

Let us be grateful to people who make us happy, they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom. – Marcel Proust

4. Be grateful. Keep a daily journal of the things you are grateful for. It will keep you focused on the abundance in your life.

It most certainly helps to think about all you do have, instead of what you don’t.

OPRAH ON HAVING VISION

Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.  – Melody Beattie

5. Create the highest, grandest vision possible for your life because you become what you believe.

We have to teach our girls that they can reach as high as humanly possible. – Beyonce

I remember reading that Bella Thorne creates a vision board for herself every year. Say what you want about her, but she is a hard working woman. You know why? It’s because she has a vision.

Arnold Schwarzenegger does something similar. Read all about it below. Very motivational.

How Arnold Schwarzenegger Totally Recalls making $20 million-dollar paychecks

If you want something in this life, you better be prepared to work for it. Nothing is free. Rarely is anyone ever handed anything in life. And even if you are, do you know what to do with it? Or how to manage it? It’s a lot harder to stay on top, when you haven’t done any of the work it takes to get there in the first place.

It wasn’t until I decided that I would be rich, that I started earning and attracting more money.

I learned that it all starts with the mind. Change your thoughts, change your life.