All posts by Greenbacks Magnet

I grew up in the Washington DC metropolitan area and have been working in the financial services and lending industry for over a decade. I earned a bachelor's degree in psychology and master's degree in distance education from the University of Maryland University College.

How I went from $5k to a six-figure 401(k) in 6 years

“It’s not your salary that makes you rich, it’s your spending habits.” ― Charles A. Jaffe

It seems like every other day I read about some new 401(k) millionaire.

I think that’s really great, but you know what I always think about when I hear about newly minted 401(k) millionaires; I think how that money is all on paper only. You cannot access those funds without cashing out. Making this investment illiquid.

There is nothing wrong with that except if you need or want the money now to spend or invest. Tapping a retirement account before age 59 ½ comes with a 10% penalty and a 25% income tax rate. Ouch!

Therefore, I focus on earning more, saving more, and investing more all at the same time.

However, years ago I thought to myself why not also focus on getting a million in investable assets.

That’s when I set about focusing on what I could do to get to $1 million in my retirement account.

After doing some research, I found that millionaires did the following:

  1. Invest at least 20% of their income
  2. Spend less than they earn
  3. Read about finance

So, then I determined that I would have to make some sacrifices, if my goal was to get to $1 million.

First, I looked at what it would take to get there.

I learned that a $100,000 could turn into $1 million in 30 years at an 8% rate of return or higher and that is a great return on investment (ROI). Since, the stock market has averaged a return of 9.8% over 90 years from 1926-2016, then I figure 8% ROI is not an unrealistic percentage. And that is without adding another dime to your portfolio.

Imagine what life would be like if you no longer had to contribute to a 401(k). Pretty sweet. All that money now comes back to you and you can put it in other places such as a college fund, real estate, or seed money to start a business.

Now, I am not saying not to continue investing. Especially, if you get a match from your employer. That’s free money. Don’t give that up. It’s just good to have and know your options. Just FYI, I am still investing in my retirement accounts.

This is how I went from $5k to five zeroes in retirement accounts in just over 5 years.

DECIDE TO GET TO SIX-FIGURES

Once I made the decision to get to $100k, then I had to figure out a way to do it.

I decided to stick to a conservative estimate of a 6% ROI. That would equate to investing $12,585 per year. That works out to $1,048.75 per month or $484.04 bi-weekly.

Salary of $35k-$100k means you would have to put in anywhere from approximately 13% to 36% of your income in investments to get this figure.

COMMIT TO SAVING

I had to then commit to the idea. That meant some belt tightening. I looked for ways to save. I cut anything that was not required for me to eat, sleep, or stay healthy. I know financial gurus say it is best to focus on earning. And while I agree, I also know it is easier to cut expenses than it is to earn more.  Therefore, these things had to go:

  • Cable
  • Subscriptions (magazines, books, etc.)
  • Buying clothes (waved bye-bye to this)
  • Vacations
  • Nail salon visits
  • Restaurant Meals (ate out less)
  • Movies
  • CD’s, DVD’s and books (rented from the local public library for free)

This freed up quite a bit of money. Anywhere from $200-300 per month. Yep, that went to saving.

Then I turned my attention toward my debt. I was paying about $800 per month to service debt. Yikes! Even though that included different kinds of consumer debt (personal loan, credit cards), it was still a huge monthly expense. So, I decided to make some changes.

I wanted to stop paying so much in interest. That money could go toward saving and investing after all. I figured I could either pay it off, see about getting the interest rates down or both.

I called up a couple lenders to see if they would lower my interest rate based on payment history and credit score. They said no. And here’s a word of caution: after calling one lender, my credit limit was lowered. That’s right. You have no say or control when you owe money. The lender has all the power. Therefore, it is your job to pay off your debt so that you can have all the power.

Your credit limit is very important because this also affects your credit score.

Say you have a $10k credit limit and you owe $1k. That is a 10% credit usage. Very low. However, if your credit limit is slashed by more than half to $2k, then that $1k balance becomes a 50% credit usage. This would increase your debt ratio and lower your credit score.

And we all know how important your credit score is. The credit bureaus – Experian, Equifax, and Transunion – hold a lot of weight in the eyes of lenders. If you have a low credit score, it can affect whether or not you get a job, are able to buy a home or even a car. Credit scores below 620 usually mean you pay higher interest rates. On a mortgage, that could mean the difference of paying $10,000 to $100,000 in interest! No pair of name brand jeans, destination wedding, or fancy exotic vacation is worth a $100,000 dollars!

Going back to saving on credit interest, I had to figure out another route. Therefore, I did two things. One, I paid off all the low balance credit cards. Any lender I owed less than $500, I paid them off. Then, went after the ones under $1k and so on until I only owed two lenders.

That’s when I used the 0% balance transfer deals I had. I was able to put $10k at 0% for 18 months and another $5k at 0% for 12 months.

I also paid off my $20k personal loan! I had previously paid off my car loan. See my post Outrageous loan terms for Porsche that even the rich can’t justify about how and when I paid off my car!

I went from spending $1k to $1,100 per month to spending $500 and saving $600 more per month!

MAKE YOUR MONEY WORK AS HARD FOR YOU AS YOU WORK FOR IT

I was able to put that in my retirement accounts. I went from investing $450 a month with an employer match to investing $1,050 to get to the required $12,585 annually needed for $100,000.

Once I hit this goal I started looking for other ways to save. Mentally, it was a great feeling to know if I never invested another dime, that I could still end up a 401(k) millionaire by just letting my money sit and work for me while I was sleeping.

Then, I turned my attention toward other goals such as paying off all debt, building a 12-month emergency fund, and building capital to purchase an income property.

I also started saving more and looking for higher rate saving accounts because it’s not that the sky is falling (shout out to chicken little); I just need a better saving rate because inflation is coming!

Thus, the purpose you need to invest. You need assets that will beat inflation, which is anywhere from 2-3% per year.

I prefer to pay off debt first. All of it as fast as you can. If not, then prioritize.

If you know that your credit cards are going to charge an Annual Percentage Rate (APR) of 11.99 to 29.99%, then this has to go.

If your student loans and mortgage are charging you 7% or higher, then you may want to focus on getting the amounts down to under $50,00 or $100,000 respectively. That way you pay less interest over the life of the loan.

If possible, I say pay them all off before age 50. Then all your money is yours in your golden years. If this is not feasible, like, say a 15-year mortgage, then you may want to focus on beefing up your savings and investing more if your loans are charging 5% or less.

Either way, automate your savings. Can’t spend what you can’t see. Pay yourself first. You do this by putting money aside in savings as soon as it comes in and not the other way around. Paying bills first and then saving what is left is a recipe for disaster. Try to aim to invest 20%, save 30%, and use the other 50% for living expenses. If you can aim to save 40-50%, and then you can invest more money to get out of the rat race sooner.

Investing 20% or more in retirement and saving 30-50% would mean you are saving and investing 50-70% of your income. At a 50% savings rate, you could turn every dollar into two. At a 10% compound interest savings rate, you could double your money every 7 years! Now that’s what I’m talking about. Turn one dollar into more.

Remember this: It’s not what you make, it’s what you keep that will make you wealthy.

Meet an orthodontist with $1 million in student loan debt

Unless you have not been reading headline making news lately, then you have heard of the man who ran up a tab of over a million dollars to become an orthodontist. It was featured in the Wall Street Journal and has attracted a lot of attention. His name is Dr. Mike Meru. He owes approximately $1,060,945.42 as of the reporting of the article in May 2018. There are only 101 people with $1 million in student loan debt. He is one of those people. Here is how this went down.

HOW TO GO FROM DEBT FREE TO OWING $1M IN 13 YEARS

Mr. Meru grew up in California. He has two brothers and is the eldest of the three. His parents said they would help pay for college. He got through undergrad with the help of his parents and by working through school. He graduated in 2005 from Brigham Young debt-free.

From there he decided to go to dental school.

Before we go any further in this story, I want you readers to know that becoming a doctor is incredibly expensive. It is not uncommon to have medical students be in debt for hundreds of thousands of dollars. Anywhere from $200,000-300,000 in medical school debt is their reality.  Dental school is also one of the most expensive programs and can cost upwards of $70,000 or more per year.

Getting back to Mr. Meru, he was informed that going to dental school would cost anywhere from a price tag of $400,000-$450,000 in student loans plus interest.

For me, this is a red flag. Even if you can earn a six-figure salary as a doctor, I am risk-averse and would be turned away by this eye-popping amount. However, if your goal is to be a doctor and be of help and in service to others, then this is what the cost will be.

FROM $0 IN STUDENT LOANS TO $340,000 IN FOUR YEARS

He then chooses one of the most prestigious institutions for dentistry: University of Southern California.  This is what he paid for four years of school from 2005-2009:

Year one at end he owed: $43,000

Year two at end he owed: $115,000

Year three at end he owed: $230,000

Year four at end he owed: $340,000

Dr. Meru has now finished dental school. He owes over a quarter of a million dollars in debt within four years of graduating from college debt-free.

Keep in mind that college tuition goes up every year around the country. USC is no exception. In addition, interest rates have gone up on student loans as well. In the WSJ article, his loans were at various interest rates throughout his time at school. Also, tuition increases at USC would go for about 6%. This is a huge amount of money. For instance, a 6% increase over 3 years would be the equivalent of an 18% increase in tuition by overall from start to finish.

The cost of college is going up faster than the cost of inflation. Generally, inflation goes up by about 3% annually increasing the costs of goods and services. Therefore, if it cost a dollar ($1.00) last year it will now cost $1.03 this year. Imagine paying 6% on $50,000 and then 6% on 53,000 and so on, all the while you are also accruing interest on this borrowed amount.

You are getting hit with a two combo even worse than Mike Tyson could ever do.

First, you get hit with tuition increases of 6% in this case. Second, you pay interest on the loans you take out of approximately $50,000 per year. The compound interest is brutal.

In the article, it states that Dr. Meru found his calling as orthodontics changed his life as a teenager. However, the one caveat he did not take into consideration: inflation. If you want to learn more about inflation, read my article Money Lessons I learned from Scrooge McDuck. The cost of becoming a doctor 20-25 years ago was cheaper then as it is way more expensive now.

This is not the first time I have seen people take bets like this on their education.

If you were to do some research, you will find that 50 plus years ago education was pretty reasonable and in many cases more  affordable. I will provide one such case below.

In the book, Generation Debt by Anya Kamenetz, a Yallie that was born toward the end of the 1970’s, stated in her book that her parents old college professors were in shock at the sticker price of Yale over a seven year time period which had risen- from $30,000 to almost $39,000. Her own father, who attended Yale on a scholarship, had appropriately asked the justification of the tuition increases. This considering when he went there the price was…wait for it…$3,000. That means within one generation tuition has increased $1,000% or to roughly 10 times the cost.

The absolute saddest and funniest part of the book, in my opinion, was at the high school graduation brunch of her younger sister. Her parents also wanted her sister to go to Yale, but cited cost concerns and rightly so. The speaker said of the 180 graduates they would divide $18 million in scholarships- that’ll just about get them to Thanksgiving. That was putting it mildly.

The problem is that education is not an equalizer. Although, there is nothing wrong with getting a good education. And going to a great school with high-quality education is awesome; some people may have to simply understand that it may not be the best option for them individually.

The jury is still out on the value of an education. Sure, they let you know on college brochures and in the media that a college degree can net you more than $1 million more in lifetime income, but in Dr. Meru’s case did it also say that if you flip a coin, it could be the opposite and you could owe $1 million dollars? I don’t think so.

Many employers are paying in wages nowhere near the cost of college.

I have read that some places cannot put a dollar amount on how much to pay their employees for their degree, but colleges have put a price on it as USC cost Dr. Meru over $400k.

FROM $340,000 IN STUDENT LOANS TO $601,506 IN THREE YEARS

You would think by finishing dental school that his education was done and over with. Alas, then there is residency, which is training for doctors. However, for dental specialists this costs too. Many doctors are paid while in residency, but Dr. Meru must continue to pay for training for an additional three years FROM 2009-2012. This would increase his debt to over $600,000.

FROM $601,506 IN STUDENT LOANS TO $1,060,945.42 IN SIX YEARS

Pay close attention here because things move really quickly.

He consolidates after finishing all his education and training. He then owes $724,817 by 2012-2013. This includes in interest and principal as a consolidation not only changes your repayment terms, interest rate, and payment amount but interest can capitalize. Capitalization is what makes student loans such a slippery slope. It makes you owe interest on top of interest making it harder to get it paid off.

From there he continues to accrue interest and owes $882,300 by 2015.

Within 3 years, interest continues and grows the debt to $1,060,945.42 by 2018.

How is this even possible? In 2005, Congress created Grad PLUS loans that removed loan limits and allows student to borrow for every expense from tuition to rent and living expenses. Dangerous.

He is now making monthly payments of $1,589.97. He has two daughters, a wife, a $400,000 mortgage, a $225,000 salary and is accruing $130 per day in interest on his loans, which is $3,900 per month and $47,000 per year.

If not for Income-based repayment, he would have to pay $10,541.91 per month. Instead, he pays about $1,600. This does not pay all the interest that is accruing and does not even touch his principal. Within 20 years he will owe $2 million. If forgiven, he will owe $700,000 in income taxes. Currently, his take-home pay after income taxes is $13,333 per month. That means if he pays the $10k monthly payment, he would have his debt paid off in about 13 years, but bring home less than $3,000 per month.

 WHY SO MUCH DEBT?

Keep in mind that it is mostly graduate students that end up in the most debt. With the cost of graduate school (2-4 years) easily topping $20,000 or more per year, it can dwarf undergraduate costs. Over 20 years ago no undergrad or graduate students owed six-figures of student loan debt. Today, over 2.5 million of graduate students do.

After reading about Dr. Meru’s story, I feel that there is a serious problem with the funding of higher education. I want people to be doing the opposite of owing interest on a $1 million and instead be earning interest on this amount of money.

I want people to have the trifecta of retirement funds- pension or 401(k), savings, social security. Over a 30 year career you want to have a paid for home, 25 times your annual income in a retirement account, and be able to get social security or have at least two forms of income to supplement your savings.

In the article, his wife said there are a few things that are OK to go into debt for: a home, an automobile, an education. I have to disagree. I say if you can avoid all debt, then do it. Pay cash for all your purchases. For a car you need one loan. Same goes for a home. However, her husband needed 50 loans to fund his education.

If you are unsure why or how you will pay cash for all purchases, let the advice of these millionaires be your guide.

Mark Cuban, billionaire owner of the Mavericks, says if you use a credit card, then you do not want to be rich.

Kevin O’Leary, shark tank entrepreneur, says all debt is evil.

David Bach, financial advisor and author of the Automatic Millionaire, says all debt is bad debt.

I rest my case.

Generosity can go a long way

“Think of giving not as a duty but as a privilege.” John D. Rockefeller

“I believe that it is my duty to make money and use it for the benefit of my neighbors. This is what my conscience tells me.” John D. Rockefeller

“No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another.” Charles Dickens

Every now and then I read stories that just lifts my heart. Recently there have been articles of heroes saving lives and people donating to charitable causes close to their heart. It reminded me of a story I heard about many years ago, but is still very inspiring today.

This article was reported on the front page of the New York Times in 1995:

All She Has, $150,000, Is Going to a University

She may be gone, but her act of charity is remembered. This tweet is from 2017. Ms. McCarty passed away in 1999. Therefore, the good you do is still remembered long after you are gone.

Her name was Oseola McCarty. And here is her story.

MEET OSEOLA MCCARTY

Oseola McCarty was born on March 7, 1908 in Mississippi. As a young child, she had to quit school in order to tend to a sick family member. Quitting school in the sixth grade, she went straight to work as a laundress like her grandmother before her. She would go on to do this for about 75 years. Leaving school was one of her biggest regrets. She wanted to go back, but all the kids in her class had moved on ahead and so she didn’t go back because she wanted to be with her class. She decided to just keep working.

HOW SHE SAVED $150,000

She was never idle. She was working since she was a young child until she retired in 1994. She worked for many years and just put almost every dollar she made into the bank. She learned to save from her mother and kept the habit for life.

The following is what she did over 70 years:

  • She took one short vacation to Niagara Falls
  • She did not travel
  • She did not fly on planes
  • She did not stay in hotels
  • She never owned a car (she walked everywhere)
  • All her immediate family passed away and she never married or had children
  • She had lived alone since 1967
  • She lived in a family home her uncle gave her in 1947 for the rest of her life
  • Money she received from the passing of her mother and aunt went into savings
  • She spent almost nothing and lived very frugally
  • Repaired instead of replaced items for brand new ones
  • Covered her old bible in Scotch tape to keep Corinthians from falling out
  • Cut wholes in her shoes if they did not fit
  • Bought her first air-conditioner in 1992 and only uses it when company comes over
  • Owns one tiny black and white television (that only gets one channel) but she rarely watches
  • She did not retire until she was around 85 years old
  • Keeps her utility bills low
  • Never subscribed to a newspaper because it cost too much (an extravagance)
  • She would pay her bills and deposit the rest of her money (even coins) into savings
  • Over time this grew into $280,000

How she donated her life savings

One day she decided she would gift her money to a local university. Not as a bequest, but immediately as she wanted to be alive to see a recipient graduate from college as he one wish. In July 1995, she would go on to start a scholarship fund to help finance college tuition for students, preferably of African-American descent, who would be unable to attend college due to financial hardship. at the University of Mississippi. When asked why she chose that school, she simply said, because it was close.

A banker at one of her financial institutions assisted her. In 1995, he wanted to help an 87-year-old Ms. McCarty, but was unsure how to assist a woman with a fifth-grade education through estate planning. He came up with the novel idea of giving her 10 dimes, each representing 10 percent of her assets. He gave her five slips of paper to write down the names of the beneficiaries and divide up the coins. She deposited one dime to her church, one for each of her cousins and the last six for a scholarship fund, after setting aside enough money to live on.

She signed an irrevocable living trust and the bank managed her funds while she received a regular check for her living expenses.

WHY SHE DONATED

She decided to give because she knew the importance of education. She had struggled all her life doing manual labor (scrubbing laundry by hand on a scrub board). She did not want that for the younger generation coming up so she gifted them money to help them not have to do what she did and get a degree she was never able to get herself.

FOR EVERY ACTION THERE IS A REACTION

The news hit the media and overnight she went from obscurity to a celebrity. She wanted no monuments or other recognition’s of her selflessness, but they came to her.

Once word spread of what she had done, it spread far and fast. Accolades and recognition for her act of charity in anticipation of her death was almost immediate. Goodness and kindness tend to spread. There was a chain reaction to her charitable action that had people wanting to reciprocate what she had done by also donating. This is what happened over four years:

  • She was honored by the United Nations
  • She received more than 300 awards
  • Contributions poured in from other donations adding almost $330,000 to her gift
  • Ted Turner donated a billion dollars to charity after hearing her act of philanthropy
  • She received the Presidential Citizen’s Medal, the nation’s second-highest civilian award
  • She received an honorary doctorate from Harvard University
  • She carried the Olympic torch through part of Mississippi in 1996
  • In December 1996, hers was the hand on the switch that dropped the ball in Times Square in New York’s New Year’s Eve celebration (also the first time she stayed up past midnight, rode an airplane, and stayed in a hotel)
  • McCarty received the Award for Greatest Public Service Benefiting the Disadvantaged, an award given out annually by Jefferson Awards
  • She was awarded an honorary degree from USM, the first such degree awarded by the university in 1998
  • McCarty was also recognized with an Essence Award and Patti LaBelle sang tribute to her during the ceremony at Madison Square Garden in New York.
  • She even met President Clinton
  • She became an author; she wrote a book called Simple Wisdom for Rich Living, published in 1996

Ms. McCarty gave out pearls of wisdom, if people wanted to listen, but mostly it was common decency and sense she had said. She also said you should know the difference between a need and a want. Just because something is free does not mean you need it. It is okay to turn down something that is free, if you really do not need it. ”There’s a lot of talk about self-esteem these days,” she once said. ”It seems pretty basic to me. If you want to feel proud of yourself, you’ve got to do things you can be proud of. Feelings follow actions.”

It was reported that her home will be turned into a museum.

When asked what she wanted to do with her money right before she donated it, Ms. McCarty replied: “I want to help some child go to college.”

And just in case you were wondering, the recipient of the very first Oseola McCarty award not only met Ms. McCarty in person to say thank you, but she also went to the University of Mississippi and graduated.  Ms. Oseola McCarty also lived long enough to get her wish: to live to see a recipient graduate.

3 Rich Habits of Millionaires

After doing some research on millionaires and billionaires, I have noticed some recurring attributes among them, which include: reading, pursuing a passion, and setting goals.

READ

“The more that you read, the more things you will know. The more that you learn, the more places you’ll go.”

― Dr. Seuss, I Can Read With My Eyes Shut!

Many of the affluent read daily or often. They seem to set aside at least 30 minutes a day for reading. This greatly improves their knowledge of their products, brands, and businesses. When you know what drives the market, then it makes it easier to compete with everyone else. I even read that Marilyn Monroe was also said to be a voracious reader.

I know in my life reading has helped me a great deal. I was able to do better in school, make better informed personal and professional decisions, and increase my investment knowledge.

One of the most successful investors of all time, Warren Buffet, says he reads every day.  Buffet typically spends 80% of his day reading. Here are some quotes from interviews he has done over the years in regards to how to become successful.

THE KEY TO SUCCESS

The CEO of Berkshire Hathaway, when asked once about the key to success, pointed to a stack of books and said, “Read 500 pages like this every day. That’s how knowledge works. It builds up, like compound interest. All of you can do it, but I guarantee not many of you will do it.”

WHAT BUFFET READS?

Warren Buffet starts his days with an assortment of national and local news. The billionaire investor tells CNBC he reads the Wall Street Journal, the Financial Times, the New York Times, USA Today, the Omaha World-Herald, and the American Banker in the mornings.

Even though Buffet reads tremendously, it would mean nothing if he did not retain what he has read. Buffets says that knowledge builds up over time. Here are some tips to remember what you read – take notes, skim the text, read out load – are just a few things you can do to retain what you read.

PURSUE YOUR PASSION OR GIFT

“To give anything less than your best, is to sacrifice the gift.” – Steve Prefontaine

I have always had an affinity for writing. I write pretty much every day. My goals are that my writing helps to plant the seed that inspire people, motivate them, and make them feel good about themselves. Writing about finances is the cherry on top of the sundae for me. And I give it everything I’ve got. No less. When I’m sick. I write. When I’m tired. I write. When I was down to my last $2. Still wrote. I would write down my thoughts, hopes, dreams, and goals. I have crossed off at least 5 items on my 10 year to do list. If it can work for me and countless others, then I know it can for you.

Dreams can come true. You just have to believe and lay down the groundwork. There is no builder of a home that would not first lay down the foundation and then build up. The same goes for life. You do not start in at the top. Otherwise, if you do, you are more likely to have created a house of cards, that can easily come tumbling down.  Like the three little pigs, you want bricks and not sticks or straw. You want something that is concrete. Construct your life blueprint on building or creating something that is solid.

If you can, find a mentor. Mentors help guide and keep people on the right path to succeed. I suggest finding someone who has already done what you want to do successfully and then asking them for advice. You can also read their books or attend their workshops. Either way study their success and see if you can imitate it.

SET GOALS

“Set your goals high, and don’t stop till you get there.” – Bo Jackson

The best advice I have ever read was to write down your goals. I have heard this from numerous celebrities including Beyoncé. She said she would write down her goals; and that she wanted to go platinum and sell a million records. Well, she wanted to be financially secure. Well, she can scratch that off her checklist. Simply heed these words: Write it down.

When you set goals and pursue your passion it is a winning combination for success. Instead of watching the clock, you just keep on working. There are too many hours on the clock when you do something you detest, but no enough hours in the day when you do something you love.

Forget the naysayers. They are not you and you are not them.  Focus your energy on doing what you enjoy putting your effort into. The energy you use to pursue your passion or anything that you do well is never wasted.  When you can focus and limit or ignore distractions, you are well on your way toward success.

Life Lessons from Race for your life Charlie Brown

Don’t worry about the world coming to an end today. It is already tomorrow in Australia. – Charles M. Schultz

I know that many people around the world know the infamous Peanuts gang and of course the lead character, Charlie Brown. The Peanuts were an American comic strip created by Charles M. Schulz in the 1950’s. Race for Your Life, Charlie Brown! This is the title of one of many in a film series based off his comics. The film was released in 1977 and still has relevance today. The Peanuts not only have incredible satirical wit and humor, but are just great stories from the heart filled with stories of a young boy and his dog.

Charlie Brown may be good for a laugh, but also for learning life lessons. I have always enjoyed Charlie Brown growing up and loved reading the comic strips on Sunday mornings. Let’s see if we can bring back some of those feelings tonight.

  1. Choose your battles

In the beginning of the film, Lucy loses her temper and confronts a young girl for sticking her tongue out at her. However, Lucy backs down after deciding it wasn’t worth fighting over. She then respectfully and humbly walks away.

I learned that you need to choose your battles in life. Sometimes you have to be man or woman enough to walk away. Everything is not worth fighting over. Trust me, when it is, you will know.

2. Plan B

Charlie Brown gets left by the bus on the way to Camp Remote in the mountains. His faithful pet dog, Snoopy comes to the rescue and gives him a lift on the back of his motorcycle.

If you want something to get done, then it is best to do it yourself. It is fine to ask and accept help. Just make sure you know and trust the source.

3. Be Brave

As soon as they enter the camp, they meet some bullies. They tease the Peanuts gang. After, insults fly Linus uses his blanket and valiantly pushes the bullies back away from him and the gang by towel snapping them.

Do not be afraid of standing up for yourself or others. Sometimes, you cannot just walk away from a fight or bullies. You may have to stand your ground. You can’t always turn and run away or hide. You have to say no more and stand your ground. When the going gets rough, you do not walk away, you stand your ground and plant your feet.

4. Democracy

Power without the confidence of a nation is nothing.  – Catherine the Great

The girls – Peppermint Patty, Lucy, Sally, and Marcie – must decide who will sleep on what bunk at camp. They take the democratic approach and vote on it. It is Marcie’s responsibility to prepare the secret ballot and count the votes. This allows for all parties to have their say without being intimidated or influenced.

I learned that this method can be great for ending disagreements. One person prepares to pass out the voting materials and other counts the votes. I personally use a pro and con list myself when I want to make certain decisions more pragmatically. There is much more you can get done diplomatically than by force. When you have the will and confidence of the people, then you can lead more effectively.

5. Caring

When the girls finally settle in at night they realize there is no one there to tuck them in and wish them sweet dreams. That’s when Snoopy comes and kisses them all good night. This makes the girls feel good.

Sharing is caring. That is how we make friends. Caring makes all the difference in the world.

6.Love and Friendship

Marcie has a hard time participating in the sporting events at camp. In particular, potato sack racing. Instead of leaving her behind and focusing only on herself, Peppermint Patty stops each time and offers words of encouragement.

This shows me that not everything is about winning. Sometimes lending a helping hand is more important. Listening is a great skill to have. You can use it to your advantage in life.

7. Sympathy

The boys and girls both are targets of the bullies at camp. They are ruthless cheaters. They are always chanting “We’re number one,” and rubbing their wins in everyone’s face much to the chagrin of the whole camp.

You definitely get the sense that the campers are pretty distressed by all of this. Even though the bullies are cheating, they still keep  fighting on. There is no need to wallow in despair when bad things happen. Keep pressing on. And hope good things for others.

8. Compassion

The boys and girls both get the air taken out of their rafts. The boys worked so hard the first time around blowing air into their floating tubes that you cannot help but have compassion for them when they have to do it all over again. The girls have to get out the air pump and were very displeased, but it did not stop them from competing in the river race.

In life, things are going to happen. You can have compassion for others. And if you can, try and help them out.

9. Put up a good fight

The bullies are constantly cheating throughout the race. This does not stop the Peanuts gang from putting forth their best efforts during the race. Their trials and tribulations only make them work harder and not give up.

If I have to go down, much like Atreyu said in The Neverending Story, I’m going down fighting. Do not give up so easily. What separates the winners from the losers is going on, one more second than your opponent.

10. Fight Back

The boys find a cabin in the woods and settle for the night. Then the girls come along and kick the boys out to sleep outside in the cold. When morning comes they girls expect hot, ready-made breakfast and ask, “Where’s the chow?” Peppermint Patty gets upset when its cold cereal. Charlie Brown snaps back, “If you don’t like, then you don’t have to eat it.” She then backs down, sits, and eats.

It’s okay to challenge people. Especially, those that like to boss people around. Again, choose your battles. Sometimes, they are worth having or speaking up for.

  1. Do the right thing

At one point in the movies, Snoopy gets separated from his friend Woodstock. What a friend.  Instead of going on without him, he stops racing, takes out a pack back and stick and goes looking for him.  This part of the film just warms your heart. When the rest of the gang meets up later, after being concerned for one another’s safety; they all rejoice in seeing one another knowing that they all are unharmed.

If something bothers you, then trust your instincts. Act on it. Do not disregard your feelings. If others do, then say something. If they do not accept you for who you are, then let them find and be with someone different. You know who your friends are because they will show they care. Love is a verb and it requires action. A friend in need is a friend indeed.

  1. Working Together

The bullies once again mess with the Peanut gangs rafts and basically destroy them. So, they all band together by putting on their life jackets, making a chain, and swimming out to get the raft. Charlie Brown misses and then Peppermint Patty goes swimming after it and gets the raft.

Unlike the title of the Buffy the Vampire Slayer season 4 episode entitled, The I in Team; there is no I in Team. You can get much better results and yield higher returns when you work as a group instead of alone. Banding together in hard times could mean the difference between survival and starvation.

13. Don’t give in to surrender

The Peanuts gang could have easily accepted defeat after all they went through. Instead, they paddled on. They saw victory in their sight and went for it full steam ahead.

You cannot just say I can’t take anymore. You have to fight on. The champ is the one that can throw one more punch. In life, it’s not how many times you get knocked down or pushed around. It’s about how many times you get back up.

  1. Appreciation

The boys take charge in leading the raft when the race is nearly over. On more than one occasion, they expected Charlie Brown to lead or save them. Instead of saying thanks, they generally mocked or criticized him when things went wrong, even when he tried his best.

There is a time and place for criticism. You should criticize softly and praise loudly. At the very least, say thank you.

15. Cheating

The bullies cheat by changing signs, destroying personal property, and playing dirty. In the end, the expensive and fancy speed boat they use with all the gadgets – sonar, radar, the works- instead of paddles or sails like the rest of the racers, sinks.

Cheaters never prosper. These boys got what was coming to them. They did not even handle their boat with care. In the end, the expensive boat sank and was rendered utterly useless. And you know what, most expensive things are.

  1. Enough is Enough

Deciding the rest of the racers should not finish if they can’t, the bullies try to again sabotage them before making it to the finish line. Even though they are out the race and will lose, it is not enough for them; therefore, everyone else must lose too. However, when Snoopy’s pal Woodstock is crossing their path, instead of letting the bullies cat take him out, Snoopy knocks him in the water and defends his friend. Thereby, this action was effective in ensuring Woodstock’s safe passage to cross the finish line.

You just have to stand up for yourself. You cannot just let people walk all over you. Otherwise, they will do it for the rest of your life.

17. Diplomacy

At one point, the boys end up in trouble. The girls have to decide whether or not to help them. Again, they use the secret ballot method to make a decision to help them out. Even though, helping them was just common sense and the right thing. Resulting in Charlie Brown replying to the girls, “how big of you.”

A recurring theme in the film is about using democracy to solve problems. Everyone gets a say by casting a vote. No hard feelings as you get your say. Your voice and input are counted. So, don’t say nothing because that is a vote that will cost you in the end to having no say in what goes on.

18. No more Mr. Nice Guy

After the race is over, and the bullies are no longer number one, the start spouting off about returning to number one next year. The winner of the race walks by with his trophy. The bullies’ cat gears up to hit the winner and Snoopy roughs him up again.

Sometimes you just can’t take it anymore. You get fed up. Everyone has a threshold. Once you reach, then that’s it. You won’t be anyone’s doormat anymore. If you test people again, they are likely to come back just as strong as or stronger than before.

19. Don’t be a sore loser

The bullies seem to take defeat not too kindly. They lost. Get over it.

If you can be an incredible winner, then also be an incredible loser. Be gracious on the way up, while you are up, and on the way down.  You never know who you may run into again on the way back down.

20. You reap the fruits of your labor or whatever you sow.

At the end of the film, the bullies reaped what they sowed. They lost. They were no longer numero uno. They could no longer call themselves, as Nigel Uno did in Codename: Kids Next Door, number one. In the illustrious words of the bullies in the film, “ha-ha.”

You must work for what you want. You can’t just get by on your good looks or live off someone else. The lazy people actually work the hardest. If you do not work in the Fall, there will be no harvest in the Spring. You have to work for your keep. You can’t build lasting wealth if you’re not willing to work.

Basically, I learned a lot from this film years ago as a kid. So, I just want to say, “Thanks Charlie Brown, for racing for your life!”